On The Beach
It has been two days in a row now and my little monster Chloe decided she will make her own decision on clothes. This morning, she needed to go to school with Hailey and when I came out, she had a dress on with a trousers underneath. Bare in mind that that was not the latest fashion. I went to ask why she dressed like that, and Ika (my helper) told me that she will not wear anything but only those. Of course I will not let her go out like that. I went into her room and picked out a dress and said to her, “look! there is a cat on the dress!” Then, Chloe said “meow” and pointed at it and decided that she had some sort of connection with the cat and put it on. So, I think my nightmare started, I remember that Hailey used to pick her own clothes and it always lead to diaster. She would pick something that just did not match. May be, I should try the montessori way: only provide two choices.
Hailey and Chloe were so different. Chloe was an angle in eating and sleeping but Hailey was other way around. However, I think that most of the time Hailey was a lovely girl that never failed to show us that she loved her sister Chloe.
I started to get a bit anxious about taking the two monster on the plane on Thursday. But I have been in much worse situation and I should be ok.
Hailey had her attep class today and she came out like a soaking wet vegetable. I really enjoy seeing her being messy and dirty.
Auntie Har Yen
I had a breakfast with some parents today and they told me that one of their firiend’s daughter turned into nightmare age (13 or 14) and really hated the mom. I cannot help but think, what if lovely Hailey turn out like that. Please do not tell me that it will not happen. I so so so know that it is going to happen to me. I am not a model child myself either. So, what am I going to do at that time? May be I will cry! Or may be I will think, haha, it is my turn now! I just could not imagine that Hailey or Chloe will be like that one day. May be I should send her to boarding school at that age, so they will appreciate me more. Not a bad idea.
